Family Relationship Mediation

Keeping families together with mediation

There are two types of family mediation, family relationship mediation and family separation mediation. We practise the former.

Relationships within families can often become strained. Clashes of lifestyle and communication problems can lead to serious conflict and potentially damaging consequences. Family members may be having some difficulties, misunderstandings, or conflict that they are struggling to resolve, and they may be looking for some support to have the difficult discussions that really need to take place.

Family relationship mediation helps you to have a better conversation with your family members, to fix relationships, to open up new dialogue, and to find a way for everyone to get on better, whatever that means for them.

How does it work?

Referring a case

A completed referral form, providing us with details of the dispute and of the parties, and a signed booking form all are that is needed to book in the case.

Prior to the mediation

The case manager will liaise with the referrer to organise the logistics, including timings, contact information, and online links (if required).

Individual meetings

The mediator will meet with each party individually to discuss the dispute to date. These private sessions will last for approximately 1½ hours each.

Joint meeting

Getting parties together for half a day in the same meeting allows for a comprehensive airing of views.

The agreement

The agreement is a joint plan of action decided upon by the participants. The mediator can write it up as a good faith agreement to give to both parties.

Feeding back

If there is a third-party referrer, UK Mediation will provide them with a Mediation Summary on the next working day (subject to parties’ consent).

Follow-up

The case manager will follow up the situation after an agreed period by contacting the parties confidentially to see if the agreement is working.

What our clients say

"The mediator was a highly professional individual. I certainly found the experience a release and I now feel I have some closure."
Recent participant in a family relationship case
"I really appreciated the way in which the mediator dealt with our situation. Couldn't fault them at all!"
Recent participant in a family relationship case

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Have some questions about family mediation?

We understand that you may have some queries about how neighbourhood mediation works. We’ve gathered together some of the most Frequently Asked Questions and have answered them below.

What's the difference between the types of family mediation?
Couple separation mediation generally requires some discussion around properties and finances, as well as some legal knowledge. And, as we are not lawyers, we try to stay away from this side of things!

Family relationship mediation, on the other hand, focuses on the interpersonal relationship and aims to help family members reconcile their differences.
Does it work?
Simply put, yes.

Our experience over the past 23 years is that helping family members to have an open and honest conversation can be extremely beneficial, especially when this is something that they may not have had a chance to do.

The vast majority of our cases end up with a renewed understanding of parties' thoughts and opinions, as well as the formation of a future-focused agreement.
Can mediation be done online?
Yes, we do offer online delivery for family relationship cases.

And while online mediation in this area is successful, we would always recommend face-to-face mediation as the preference. We find that this is often the best way to address interpersonal disputes between family members.
Is mediation confidential?
Yes, we ask parties to sign a Liability and Confidentiality Agreement on the day of the mediation, to make sure that whatever is said does not leave the room.

In addition, all notes related to the case are disposed of upon completion.
Is it voluntary?
Yes, people cannot be made to take part in mediation.

If parties are coerced or forced to take part on the day, we find that this often hinders the result of the mediation and makes it less likely to arrive at a successful conclusion.

What we will say, however, is that mediation is strongly recommended if things progress towards court.
How many people can take part?
Our one-day mediation service (running from 9:30-4:30) is suitable for two- or three-party disputes.

For larger family disputes, mediation can still be used but will require multiple days and potentially multiple mediators. Prices are available upon request.

Family mediation in action

Learn more about family mediation by watching our free webinar!

This particular presentation looks at how mediation can be used to prevent youth homelessness as a result of conflict within the home.

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